We've already heard about the female G-spot. They opened it, looked hard, couldn't find it, and (apparently out of frustration) questioned its existence.
As soon as the noise has calmed down a little, we're off! – there are rumors that men have a G-spot too!
Besides, it is much easier to find it.
What is this?
The male G-spot is often called the P-spot. The "P" stands for prostate.
Remember that the prostate is a gland the size of a walnut located just below the bladder.
The P-spot is not only responsible for orgasms, but it also aids in reproduction by producing seminal fluid and helping sperm live long and thrive once expelled from the penis.
How to find?
Two ways: inside and outside. You can search for the G-spot in any way - a man will experience amazing sensations in any case. It all depends on the level of trust between the partners.
- Inside. This point is located two inches from the entrance to the anus. Approximately at the level of the first joint of the finger.
- From the outside, the prostate can also be stimulated through the perineum. The skin between the scrotum and anus is literally filled with nerve endings. This should not be forgotten during oral sex.
How to stimulate the prostate?
First - dialogue
A man is unlikely to be happy if his second half suddenly decides to engage in such experiments. Some people are very scrupulous about anything related to anal play. Dialogue therefore comes first.
It is very important to treat each other with respect and to remember that not everyone can be excited by the same things. If your former partner liked such techniques, this does not mean that the current man will be delighted with them.
Equipment
So that the search for the P-spot brings maximum pleasure to both partners, you need to prepare. You will need:
Lubrication
Any anal sex is impossible without lubricant. Choose a high-quality lubricant, such as a silicone-based lubricant.
Condom
Where the anus is, there are bacteria. Yes, not very romantic, but such is life. Don't forget to put a condom or latex glove on your finger.
Anal toys
Choose according to your taste. They will add thrill.
Do not forget !
Hands
Hands should be washed thoroughly and nails should be rounded and trimmed. Infections and injuries are not part of your plans, are they?
Create the mood
The man must be relaxed and sexually aroused. Hot bath, sensual massage, caresses, don't skimp on the foreplay.
We're going to get down to business
The man is relaxed and you are ready to start looking for that magic spot?
But don't rush things: start with external stimulation.
Try that:
- Use the tips of your index and middle fingers to rub and caress the perineum.
- Experiment, alternate between different speeds and intensities.
- With your other hand, caress the penis and scrotum.
If you're ready to move on:
- Apply lubricant to your finger and slowly insert it into the anus 2 to 5 cm.
- Carefully feel around to find the prostate. It should feel smooth and round to the touch.
- Once you feel it, start making light "come here" movements with your finger.
- Ask a man about his feelings. Speed, intensity, does everything suit him?
- Add a caress of hands or a blowjob to the process - a powerful orgasm is guaranteed for the man.
Reminder for recipient
The first thing to do is to relax. Only in this case you will be able to get maximum pleasure. And:
- Talk. About your feelings and the limits of what is allowed.
- Bathroom. Prostate stimulation and anal penetration can cause both an urge to urinate and defecate. With such a combination it is difficult to relax. Going to the bathroom (and taking a bath) before games is a must.
- Comfort. Create all conditions for yourself. Don't let anything distract you.
- Appreciate. Everything that happens should bring you pleasure. Ask your significant other to use more (less) lube, use sex toys, change positions, and not stay quiet if something goes wrong.
Poses
You can choose any position in which both partners will be comfortable. But you can start with one of these:
- Dark side. The man lies on his stomach and spreads his legs slightly. The partner places a pillow under his hips and sits behind him.
- Doggie. He gets on all fours, his partner is behind him.
- On the side. The man is lying on his side with one knee resting against his chest. The partner lies down from behind so that she can comfortably stimulate her partner's anus.
I did not like
It's good. There is nothing about sex that pleases everyone. Maybe it's just not your thing.
If both partners want to continue the experiment, you can try again. And so, through trial and error, find a technique that will please both. Experiment with positions, sex toys, and amount of lube.
Map of pleasures
There are still a bunch of "hot spots" on a man's body, which many people forget about for some reason. An unforgivable omission!
Pay attention to areas such as:
- The head of the penis. This area is filled with nerve endings. Hand touching, licking, sucking – use it all. Especially during prostate play. Don't forget about lubrication.
- Frenum: This is an elastic leathery fold that connects the lower part of the head of the penis to the foreskin. Incredibly sensitive. Competent manipulation of the frenulum will give a man a powerful orgasm. The frenulum can be stimulated with the tongue or thumb of your free hand.
- Scrotum. Prostate massage combined with scrotum massage will provide the man with maximum pleasure. Connect a vibrating toy to the process.
P. S. You can do without sex toys, scented candles and erotic music. But this will not be possible without confidence and relaxation. Focus on what's important.
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Many men categorically refuse G-spot stimulation. In addition, a large number of men have no idea what the prostate is and where it is located! This shame needs to be corrected - try to gradually release the man in bed and do not give up experimenting. No one says take a huge dildo and chase a man around the bedroom with it. Gradually move down carefully to the area below the testicles - this can be done during a blowjob. Try different stimulation techniques and watch the man's reaction. It is very unlikely that he will refuse - he will definitely like it. And then you can directly access the G-spot.
G-spot in men: where it is located and how to stimulate it correctly
According to the Greeks, the mysterious G-spot in men is the second heart. This poetic name is due to the fact that it is from this point that the whole process of awakening begins. If you specifically influence this area, you can achieve an intense orgasm. To please a man, it’s not enough to find the "magic button". You need to learn how to stimulate it properly.
What do we mean by G-spot in young people?
The man's G-spot is the prostate, stimulation of which causes muscles to contract. Thanks to this, the guy is able to experience a lot of vivid sensations. Such an orgasm is much more colorful than that which appears in a young man during stimulation of the genital organ.
The male G-spot is a real find for supernatural pleasure. But to activate the magic button, you have to know where to look for it.
Where is the erogenous point and how to find it
To give your partner a powerful orgasm, you need to know where the precious G-spot is located in men. Its location is very interesting. If a man's penis is on the outside, then the precious "button" is located in the area between the rectum and the pubic bones. It has the shape of a walnut or chestnut, occupies about 4 cm2 of surface area and weighs no more than 20 g.
In all men, the G arousal point is located below the bladder, in the upper part of the urethra. To detect it, you need to penetrate the anus to a depth of 5 to 7 cm. As soon as you feel a small bulge, you can consider that the goal has been achieved.
Men are often embarrassed to seek out the G-spot for fear of being labeled as lovers of same-sex love. To get real pleasure, you need to get rid of this stereotype. There is nothing wrong with learning and using the magic pea. You need to learn how to stimulate her correctly and then sex with your beloved woman will take on new colors.
How to properly stimulate the area
For the G-spot to provide maximum pleasure, it is necessary to properly prepare the stimulation process.To do this you need:
- Clean the rectum with a laxative or enema.
- Work confidently as a couple. If you ignore this stage of preparation, the guy will not be able to relax and in the end will only experience painful sensations.
- The girl has to cut her long nails. If it accidentally injures the internal mucous membrane of a man, it will lead to the formation of inflammation.
- In order for G-spot stimulation to take place without unpleasant consequences, strict compliance with hygiene rules is required. Before the process, you must wash your hands with soap and then put on disposable medical gloves.
- During stimulation, sexologists advise using a special intimate lubricant, which will facilitate the penetration of female fingers into the anus. This is called a lubricant. The more, the better. It is advisable to choose a lubricant containing lidocaine, a substance that helps reduce discomfort. But it is important to remember that the analgesic effect of lubricant begins after 10-15 minutes.
- For the G-spot examination to be painless, the young man must adopt a comfortable position. A good option is the lying position: the guy is on his back, and the girl is between his legs.
With your hand
When the man has taken a comfortable position, the girl should warm up her body with a massage. The partner should reach her lover's scrotum and massage the testicles and anus in a circular motion. Classically, this area is considered the external G-spot in men and boys.
To distract your partner, you can resort to oral sex. You need to insert your fingers into the anus carefully and slowly, as if you are screwing in a screw. This will help to spread the folds of the skin without causing traumatic effects and increasing pleasant sensations.
Once you manage to find the G-spot, you shouldn't turn it into a stuck button or joystick. The girl should imagine that under the finger there is a clitoris, which should be lightly pressed and caressed with gentle circular movements. When a man approaches orgasm, sexologists recommend rhythmically pressing on the G-spot about 1 time per second.
Use special devices
You can please your loved one with the help of sex toys. They allow you to influence both the external and internal "pea".Modern erotic toys include:
- anal beads;
- vibration stimulators;
- dildos.
Sexologists recommend the use of anal beads to untrained men. To do this, they must be placed in the anus and removed only at the end of intimacy with the lady.
When orgasm is "on the threshold", the woman should begin to remove 1 ball at a time. It will give a man incredible pleasure. When the guy gets used to such intimate games, you can take other devices to bed. They should be used in the same way as your fingers.
Precautions and contraindications
Not all men can influence the prostate. There are a number of contraindications to this type of intimate caresses.These include the following diseases:
- hemorrhoids;
- chronic inflammation of the prostate, as well as acute prostatitis;
- polyps;
- urination problems;
- inflammatory processes in the rectum.
If, during anal caresses, errors are made in the stimulation technology, hygiene rules are not taken into account and contraindications are ignored, infections will occur in the prostate and inflammatory processes swill get worse. Before an intimate experience, it is advisable to consult a doctor.
G-spot stimulation in young people is not only a pleasant, but also a useful procedure that has a beneficial effect on men's health. Don’t be afraid to explore your own body. The more pleasure points you find, the better.
G-spot massage: everything for men and women, effective techniques
Understanding true sexual desire from intimacy is impossible without carefully studying the erogenous zones of your partner and yourself. This knowledge will give you the opportunity to receive the greatest pleasure. The G-spot plays an important role in the research and study of erogenous zones. Anyone who wants to enjoy intimacy to the fullest should learn how to massage the G-spot.
A few words about the history of the G-spot
Sexuality has largely been studied from the woman's point of view. For the male body, it was previously believed that the onset of orgasm and ejaculation was the greatest sexual pleasure, although later they revised their views. Around the 80s of last year, sexologists (mainly in Western countries) began to encounter more and more patients who experienced reaction (or squirting) orgasm.
These women described their sensations as multiple orgasms (in a short time), powerful and vivid. However, several decades ago, in 1950, the German gynecologist Ernst Gräfenberg spoke of a particular area in the female genitals, stimulation of which led to increased sexual desire and rapid orgasm, as well as the release of fluid from it. resulted.
Some time later, after the death of the scientist, this area began to be called briefly - point G. In some sources you can also find such a description - point j, which is a definition of the same thing.
Much later, scientists determined that a similar zone existed not only in women, but also in men. In other words, a man can achieve a stronger and brighter orgasm if a certain area is stimulated during stroking.
Location of the G-spot in women
This is one of the most frequently asked questions. To begin with, you need to understand that you should not look for a "point" or a "pea", as many believe, but an area, an area. This area is located in the vagina, on the front wall, approximately 3 to 5 cm from the entrance to it. This area is not located directly on the wall, but as if inside it, that is to say that it is not the mucous membrane that must be stimulated, but the tissues located deeper.
To better understand the location of the G-spot in women, it is necessary to locate the ureter. Closer to the exit of urine from the ureter, all around it, are the Skene glands (or paraurethral glands), responsible for the most voluptuous sensations. If the girl is lying on her back, the area itself will be located directly under the pubis and clitoris.
You can try to feel this area by palpation, that is, with your fingers. To do this, the woman lies on her back. The man turns his hand with the palm facing him and carefully inserts 1 or 2 fingers into the partner's vagina. You now need to carefully probe the front surface of your partner's vagina with your fingertips. After 3-5cm from the entrance you may feel bumps and roughness. For some, the surface of the area even looks like the sky in the mouth. The internal tissues of this area constitute the desired G-spot.
G-spot stimulation in women
There are several ways to stimulate this area. Some require the presence of a partner, others can be done independently, and still others require the mandatory use of special devices (sex toys). Here are the most common methods:
Use your fingers
This is the simplest and most accessible way. You can use your fingers to stimulate the desired area alone or in the presence of a partner, which will also excite both. A man can also massage his partner's G-spot, which will allow him to track the degree of her arousal and literally control the entire process, speeding up or slowing down certain stages of stimulation.
So your hands should be clean, because basic hygiene rules are literally the safety of your partner and yourself. It's a good idea to have a lubricant on hand, as lubrication always reduces friction and improves glide. Meanwhile, some couples avoid lubrication because they believe it reduces sensitivity.
In any case, the girl must be aroused, which means that this process must involve foreplay (of any kind - kissing, touching and even cunnilingus). Only when the partner is literally wet "down there" can you begin to stimulate the G-spot. The finger should be inserted carefully, probing every millimeter inside.
Having found the desired area, you need to intensify the massage movements, lightly pressing towards the skin. The finger constantly looks up. If everything is done correctly, the probability that your partner will soon achieve an orgasm is very high.
During sex
Surprisingly, stimulating the G-spot in women during sex is not as simple as it seems. Here you need to take into account positions for sexual intercourse as much as possible. The angle of penetration should be such that the desired area is constantly exposed to friction from the head of the partner's penis.
For example, the most famous missionary position of the classic version is not suitable for the desired goals, because penetration occurs from top to bottom, and not the other way around. To stimulate the G-spot, you need to slightly elevate your partner's pelvis so that his pubis is at the same level as the man's groin. In this state, the angle of penetration will be "vertical", meaning that the G-spot will be naturally stimulated by the head of the penis.
Everyone's favorite dogi style pose also needs to be adjusted slightly. A man should not lean on his knees, but stand with his legs slightly bent. His pelvis will be slightly higher than the level of his partner's vagina, and the head of the penis will rest just against the front wall of the vagina, where the desired area is located. Finally, there is an additional position for women who like the "on top" position.
In this case, you need to position yourself, turning 180 degrees towards your partner, so that the man's head is between the girl's legs and she rests her elbows on the surface of the bed. The partners' anterior body parts look up and their faces look at each other. Here the area is stimulated by the outer edge of the head of the penis. Here the woman herself regulates and controls the process, which means that she is able to achieve the most vivid orgasm.
Using sex toys
Everything is very simple here. In specialized stores you can find devices, most often dildos, the end of which is slightly curved upwards, which contributes to a more expressive effect on the desired area. Such devices may have additional characteristics - rotation, vibration, different textures and shapes, as well as modes. You can also perform stimulation using them independently or with a partner.
Prostate stimulation: which organ is it?
The prostate is located under the bladder, at the beginning of the urethra, behind the pubic bone. It plays a huge role in sexual and reproductive function and in the act of urination. First, the prostate produces a fluid that makes sperm watery and motile. By studying how to stimulate a man's prostate, you can help rid it of excess fluid and improve erections.
It is considered the male G-spot
Although the existence of this point has been questioned (one plausible version is that of the inner part of the clitoris), it is important to understand that the prostate is also considered the "orgasm button". It is even called the second male heart. Once you learn how to stimulate his prostate so that he can cum, you will be able to completely conquer him and surprise him a lot.
Initially, massage had a medical purpose, but men quickly realized that it provided great pleasure. The excitement caused by stimulation of the G-spot relaxes the partner and maintains an erection. Applying the knowledge on how and where exactly to stimulate the prostate helps to achieve a powerful and rapid orgasm.
It's not that deep
The accessory reproductive gland is located behind the anal wall towards the navel, a few centimeters from the sphincter. About three quarters of a finger goes deep into the anus, that is, it is quite possible to reach it. Stimulation of the prostate must be very careful due to its high sensitivity.
Why should the prostate be stimulated?
Even if a man has a rough idea of how to stimulate the prostate for pleasure, there are other important reasons for this. So, for what purposes is massage needed:
- Improves blood circulation in the pelvic organs and blood circulation in the prostate.
- Outflow of lymph and secretions from the prostate, eliminating congestion, reducing swelling due to fluid accumulation, alleviating the symptoms of prostatitis, for its treatment and prevention.
- Strengthening the prostate muscles.
- Strengthening the erection and increasing the potency and sexual desire.
- Accelerates the penetration of drugs into the gland.
How to massage the prostate
Ideally, you should consult a doctor and watch a video on how to stimulate a man's prostate. Despite the beneficial effects, the procedure can cause pain and even harm the chosen one. But with skillful and careful handling, prostate massage will only be beneficial.
Discuss the details
As with everything related to sex, you need your partner's consent for any manipulation. It is the expansion of your intimate limits and the realization of sexual fantasies. If you're close enough, you can taste this forbidden fruit.
Keep it simple
There is no need to turn prostate stimulation into an event of incredible proportions. Plus, you don't even need to insert your fingers inside! When you discuss with your partner how you can stimulate the prostate, you can experiment.
For example, it will be easier to implement your plan in a knee-elbow position or on your side, preferably on the right. The knees should be brought closer to the stomach. In this position it is easier to relax the desired area. Another way to better stimulate the prostate from the outside is to massage the area around the anus or touch it with your tongue. Either you integrate it with oral sex while your hands are busy with the penis, or you pay attention to the area between the penis and the scrotum (indirect stimulation). There are many ways to achieve the desired result.
Relax
Both! Let the man lie on his back if he doesn't want to lift his pelvis up, and you position yourself between his legs. When you feel he is ready, gently insert your finger into his anus and begin to stimulate your husband or boyfriend's prostate.
If your fingers encounter obstacles during the massage, take your time and wait for it to relax properly. Maybe run your lips or fingertips over his body. In this case, guys also need foreplay. Sexologists even recommend not starting sex with it. It is best to start the massage when you are both sufficiently "warmed up" and orgasm is near.
But if you are so liberated and curious, it is not forbidden to try different variations, at the beginning, in the middle or towards the end.